*Walks in*

Before I begin, let me thank those of you that have supported me since I started blogging by reading and sharing my posts. I really do appreciate you for not giving up on me, considering my inconsistency at times. Thank you.

Well, hello everybodyyyyy! It seems like something I say a lot, but I do feel that as I get older, I need to start making changes in how I live and towards my blog. Okay, this particular change is as important as today being my birthday. Before you started reading, I’m sure you must have noticed some changes. I have just launched my website and moved things around a bit.

New blog look

I am really excited about this big change in my blog and I think this is a great opportunity to serve you better with some things that bother my mind and to share my life with you. Launching this website has to be one of the best things that has happened to me this year and I really hope I continue to inspire you in every way possible to pursue your dreams and be able to express yourself, becoming the best version of you.

20-thriving, 20-favorite, 20-forever young, 20-wow, 20-oh no I’m growing old, 20-I need a job, 20-heartbreaks, 20-reality check, 20-I need to get my life together, 20-fine, 20-when are you getting married, 20-paying your own bills, 20-good/broken relationships, 20-my mates are doing a lot better, 20-taking responsibilities, 20-FEARFUL.

Yes, this girl just turned 20. It’s my first decade of being an adult (betting that I still won’t feel like one by thirty though) and I have no idea what it’ll hold. Everyone in their twenties have fun filled experiences but it can be overwhelming at some point. From trying to be independent, figuring life out, finding career path, relationships, finances, the society pressure and other factors. It’s just hectic. Also, the society has set high standards for people in their twenties to have it together because they are ADULTS. A stage we thought we were more prepared for. Now look at me. Lol.

It’s easy to plan our lives in our head but it doesn’t always play out that way in reality. This minute you feel you’ve got things together and the next minute you have no clue of what you’re doing and it sucks. But then, it doesn’t always have to be that way. It’s a phase that comes every now and then. How you handle it is what matters. At this stage, there’s always an unavoidable comparison of your age mates having made it already making you disappointed in yourself. You are trying hard to balance the curve of what family, friends, and society expect from you and what you expect from yourself.

For the majority of the past decade, I let some aspects of myself knock my confidence. I can’t tell you how many opportunities I missed out on down to self doubt and my anxious mind, creating scenarios in which nothing turns out right. Now I’d like to think I push myself more and don’t let these aspects of myself hinder my progress.

This last year has taught me a lot about myself and what I think about things. It has also taught me something about the world and my place in it. Right now, I know my limits to what I can do.

So now, as my blog title says, I’m waving goodbye to my teenage years as I step into my 20s where Im now considered a “real adult”. To be honest, I can’t believe that I’ll be expected to start acting my age. The fact that Im 20 is just really funny to me because I still believe I’m sixteen. I’m still a child please. Nonetheless, as daunting as it may seem, I’m excited about what the next stage of my life will bring.

Evidently turning 20 hasn’t blessed me with the ability to string together a coherent blog post, but there you go.

Happy Birthday to me!

If you read to this point, thank you very much. Please, make sure you subscribe to my blog before you leave. Do this for the birthday girl.

Love, X.

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70 Comments

  1. Lolade July 23, 2020 at 12:16 pm

    Such a beautiful piece❤️

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    1. Mo’s blog July 23, 2020 at 6:42 pm

      thank you babe 🥰❤️

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      1. Meg July 23, 2020 at 10:50 pm

        It’s a good one dearie 😊
        Keep up the good work 👍

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  2. lawal kofoworola July 23, 2020 at 12:18 pm

    I’m proud of you my baby girl ❤️

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    1. Mo’s blog July 23, 2020 at 6:43 pm

      thank you ❤️

      Reply
  3. Symplymine July 23, 2020 at 12:24 pm

    20 -We are gonnna make it❤️❤️

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    1. Mo’s blog July 23, 2020 at 6:43 pm

      Amen! ❤️

      Reply
  4. Ubanozie Iheanetu July 23, 2020 at 12:25 pm

    The way you grow fast and diversify is truly amazing, trust me, adulthood is a bumpy ride but focus on the lessons not the memories

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    1. Mo’s blog July 23, 2020 at 6:44 pm

      Yes! thank you very much❤️

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  5. Hormotys12 July 23, 2020 at 12:27 pm

    Great❤️

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    1. Mo’s blog July 23, 2020 at 6:54 pm

      💜💜

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  6. Donald The Talebearer July 23, 2020 at 12:32 pm

    Happy birthday Mo 🎂🎈🎉 I’m really happy about this change in fact. Here’s to 20-it only gets better from here years ahead. 🥂

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    1. Mo’s blog July 23, 2020 at 6:45 pm

      Thank you talebearer ❤️❤️

      Reply
  7. Gbemilash July 23, 2020 at 12:33 pm

    This is really nice….happy birthday to you
    I’m also 20

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    1. Mo’s blog July 23, 2020 at 6:45 pm

      Thank youuuu

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  8. Debbie July 23, 2020 at 12:54 pm

    Well done girl… Happy Birthday to you 🎉 💗

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    1. Mo’s blog July 23, 2020 at 6:46 pm

      Thanks babe

      Reply
  9. Yemi Anjorin July 23, 2020 at 12:59 pm

    Wow! It seems as yesterday that I held you in my arms, wishing you’d forever stayed my baby. Your presence in my life has added nothing but value and joy. Congratulations on your new feat, Mowrites website. Ride on girl, I am proud of you.

    Turning 20 is significant bcos it comes btw the milestones of 18 & 21. Life really begins at this age because you have become an adult, maturity and responsibility come with this age and you must learn all these now with a lot of perseverance.

    My prayer is that God will keep you and give you more wisdom to deliver to your fans and loved ones what they need on your blogs.

    Happy 20th birthday dearie.

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    1. Mo’s blog July 23, 2020 at 6:53 pm

      The best mother and earth and my biggest fan, thank you very much ❤️❤️

      Reply
  10. Alexander Zito July 23, 2020 at 1:21 pm

    Happy Birthday Ma’am ❤️

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    1. Mo’s blog July 23, 2020 at 6:46 pm

      Thank you so much

      Reply
  11. DrDonald July 23, 2020 at 1:46 pm

    My own is that this website is giving me joy.

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    1. Mo’s blog July 23, 2020 at 6:46 pm

      I can’t wait to bring in more content 💃🏽💃🏽

      Reply
  12. Aminu Mubarak July 23, 2020 at 1:57 pm

    Before saying anything let me first wish you a happy birthday.

    Now back to the discussion, I turned 20 last 4 years, then I didn’t expect much changes from my teenage routines but the fact is I have growned up and so do the noise in my head, infact I have to keep ignoring alot of those noises just to stay focused. As I move on I realize there is little that can withstand a man who can conquer himself.
    Your new age means new challenges and new strength but for what ever reason just keep pushing.

    Once again happy birthday Dear.

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    1. Mo’s blog July 23, 2020 at 6:52 pm

      Thank you very much! I can’t wait for what this decade has to offer.

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  13. Somidotun July 23, 2020 at 2:14 pm

    Yaay 🥳. Happy Birthday ❣️

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    1. Mo’s blog July 23, 2020 at 6:47 pm

      LOML, Thank you ❤️

      Reply
  14. Onyinye July 23, 2020 at 2:49 pm

    Happy 20th Love and congratulations to your website❤❤

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    1. Adeola July 23, 2020 at 3:14 pm

      Nice piece baby 😘
      Happy birthday girlie

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    2. Mo’s blog July 23, 2020 at 6:47 pm

      Thank you my friend ❤️

      Reply
  15. Tari July 23, 2020 at 2:50 pm

    Happy Birthday dear. I wish you long life and prosperity and your website looks very beautiful by the way.

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    1. Mo’s blog July 23, 2020 at 6:47 pm

      Thank you, Tari 💜

      Reply
  16. Blanq July 23, 2020 at 3:13 pm

    Baby you’re going places💝💝💝

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    1. Mo’s blog July 23, 2020 at 6:48 pm

      Amen!

      Reply
  17. Obayomi Olamide Laamie July 23, 2020 at 3:18 pm

    Super proud to know you babe. Happy 20th. Cheers to many more years and achievements in good health and wealth. Love you 😍 #simiarmyforlife

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    1. Mo’s blog July 23, 2020 at 6:48 pm

      Thanks babe ❤️❤️

      Reply
  18. Omobolaji Olasunkanmi July 23, 2020 at 3:24 pm

    God bless you and your new age

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    1. Mo’s blog July 23, 2020 at 6:49 pm

      Amen

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  19. Fabian Tha First July 23, 2020 at 3:30 pm

    Cheers to many more wins!

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    1. Mo’s blog July 23, 2020 at 6:49 pm

      Amen G

      Reply
  20. Samuel July 23, 2020 at 3:44 pm

    Happy birthday guy. Bigger you I pray♥️

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    1. Mo’s blog July 23, 2020 at 6:49 pm

      Thank youuuu ❤️

      Reply
  21. Anari Stephen July 23, 2020 at 3:49 pm

    Now this is a masterpiece

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    1. Mo’s blog July 23, 2020 at 6:49 pm

      Thank you boss 🤲🏾

      Reply
  22. Zeezah July 23, 2020 at 4:05 pm

    Cheers to a new age! Cheers to greater heights and lots of blessings! I’m so excited and happy for you😍❤

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    1. Mo’s blog July 23, 2020 at 6:50 pm

      Thank you baby girl ❤️

      Reply
  23. Raheemat July 23, 2020 at 5:33 pm

    You’re such an amazing writer❤️

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    1. Mo’s blog July 23, 2020 at 6:50 pm

      Thanks boo ❤️

      Reply
  24. Kelvin July 23, 2020 at 6:16 pm

    Happy birthday

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    1. Mo’s blog July 23, 2020 at 6:50 pm

      Thank you ❤️

      Reply
  25. Jessica July 23, 2020 at 6:22 pm

    You are amazing Mollie..Cheers to a new age and such a wonderful piece

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    1. Mo’s blog July 23, 2020 at 6:51 pm

      Jessica, thank you 💜

      Reply
  26. Esther July 23, 2020 at 6:28 pm

    Happy birthday baby♥️♥️ Your work is amazing

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    1. Mo’s blog July 23, 2020 at 6:51 pm

      Thank you love

      Reply
  27. Impulse July 23, 2020 at 7:37 pm

    Aw🤍❤️Happy birthday!!🎂🎂
    New Chapters are always fun to open! Let’s goo!🚀✨

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    1. Mo’s blog July 24, 2020 at 12:34 am

      Thank you ❤️

      Reply
  28. Favour Ken-Ehinebo July 23, 2020 at 7:38 pm

    Happy birthday dear. Thank you for who you are. 20 is the begining of your success. Keep thriving dear.

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    1. Mo’s blog July 24, 2020 at 12:35 am

      Thank you baby 🥰

      Reply
  29. Abraham Ofili July 23, 2020 at 10:47 pm

    Happy birthday babe, cheers to your new age.

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    1. Mo’s blog July 24, 2020 at 12:35 am

      Thank you 🥺

      Reply
  30. Kolade July 23, 2020 at 11:44 pm

    It only gets better from here🔥. Cheers to growth. Great piece🤲🏽

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    1. Mo’s blog July 24, 2020 at 12:36 am

      Thanks man ❤️

      Reply
  31. Vineemchi July 24, 2020 at 10:07 am

    Happy Birthday boo
    God bless you

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    1. Mo’s blog July 24, 2020 at 4:15 pm

      thank you babe ❤️

      Reply
  32. Ruona August 3, 2020 at 3:45 am

    Congratulations, babe. You’re going places and I’m here for it. I love you. 💜

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    1. Mo's blog August 4, 2020 at 11:09 am

      thank you baby 🤗❤️. I love you too 🥰

      Reply
  33. Oba August 29, 2020 at 4:48 pm

    Molayooo, I’m so freaking astonished rn. Like I really love this – the way you present your thoughts, how you make writing seem so easy and the quality of your blog: UI, aesthetics, UX.. everything
    I daresay I’m crushing on you already.. Lol.
    Keep it going dear! 😉👌

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    1. admin August 29, 2020 at 8:50 pm

      Thank you very much 🥺❤️

      Reply
  34. boattajoyk April 24, 2021 at 6:28 pm

    I’m not that much of a internet reader to be honest but your blogsreally nice, keep it up! I’ll go ahead and bookmark your site to come back later on. Cheers

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    1. admin April 30, 2021 at 3:22 am

      thank youuuu.

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