“I will be calm. I will be mistress of myself.” – Jane Austen. 

Add https://music.apple.com/ng/playlist/ssva/pl.u-38oWW0ETYVJjkBA to your playlist before you carry on 😘.

I have random days when I am baffled and filled with anxiety, days when I am flustered between what’s relevant and what’s not. I search for peace so badly, at the same time I am always worried to lose myself. 

These are the days when I am unhinged, days when I don’t love myself enough, days when I don’t know my worth. 

I would tend to think of anxiety as an opposite of serenity. It makes everything seem like a waste of time, and makes me feel numb. When I’m feeling most anxious, a lot of my distress comes from the idea that I’m not motivated to do anything or rather feeling so useless. It’s especially frustrating when a day is filled with unproductive attempts and flat-out failure to accomplish anything. 

I often think of serenity as a passive trait, it can accomplish more than some of the driven behaviors we fall into when stressed. I realized that to make right choices, to make yourself better you ought to get in touch with your soul and for that you ought to know and experience solitude. 

It’s merely because there’s serenity in solitude, there’s freedom, peace and healing in solitude and you’ll definitely perceive your answers in solitude.

Just think about it, how can you hear your soul in chaos where there is no serenity?

Before I go, I’d love to wish Ruona of Ruonaahsculture a Happy Birthday. I love you babe. Never stop being an amazing friend 💜💜

LOML 😍😍

You can check out her blog at https://ruonaahsculture.blog/

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6 Comments

  1. Ruona March 18, 2021 at 4:44 pm

    You even gave us playlist.. ah ahn 😍
    I can relate to this blog post because there are times when nothing seems to be falling in place and most times, it takes the grace of God to pull myself out of misery.
    I don’t know about solitude tho’. I know that in times like these, I want to be left alone but when I’m alone, I feel like I’m drowning too. It’s hard to explain.

    Thank you, Molayo. You already know I love you 🥺💜.

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    1. admin March 19, 2021 at 1:27 pm

      I know I know my love. I love you too❤️

      Reply
  2. Lami_dhe March 18, 2021 at 5:23 pm

    Most times it’s often harder than solitude, it’s like grace they pulls one out but then we just have to give out if not for us for others that we love💕💞🌺

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    1. admin March 19, 2021 at 1:28 pm

      yes yes.

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  3. Diana Akorah March 19, 2021 at 9:41 am

    With this whole exam thing and most of my life…..this is true. I wasn’t sure if it’s about serenity or just not being content or happy.

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    1. admin March 19, 2021 at 1:29 pm

      this exam news is definitely messing with my head. I pray we see it through.

      Reply

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